Surround yourself with those who, when you’re around them, cause you to long for a deeper sense of who you are.

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Don’t become like them, but note the characteristics in them that are attractive to you.
I remember a life several years ago I thought was great. When tragedy happened, I laughed my way through it, buried it and moved on. I woke up, went to work and back home. Occasionally in between, I’d stop at the convenience store to grab a pack of Pall Mall Menthol Lights.
I did what I wanted when I wanted to and was quick to judge and wouldn’t hesitate to throw the first punch in an argument, whether physically or verbally. I did my fair share of making fun of “Bible Thumpers” all the while continuing on the road of my own selfish ambitions.
How many sports players do you think sit on the sidelines during the game and never get playing time? They settle with the fact they can call themselves “players” regardless if they ever get to play or not.
Every week they dress up in their gear, run out on the field with the rest of the team, then sit next to the Gatorade jug watching, hoping, wishing they could be on the field. Still it doesn’t happen.
It’s that terribly famous word we all hate to hear, when it comes to our writing:
“No.”
Everyone likes to get her way. But what happens when you don’t?I’m guest posting for Jeff Goins today on my experience of rejection from a publisher. Check out the rest of the post here..
Since reading David Platt’s book, Radical: Taking Back Your Faith from the American Dream, the reality of my role as a disciple of Jesus Christ to share the gospel with others hasn’t left my mind.
When Our Last Great Hope: Awakening the Great Commission by Ronnie Floyd got into my hands, that reality got even clearer. Thank you Thomas Nelson for investing in this book.
Floyd challenges us to start the ripple effect now of spreading The Gospel with others. Ready for a question to get you moving?
I am super excited to announce the release of my first eBook. After putting some of my experiences of weight loss in words, I’m happy to be sharing it with you. Welcome to Step Away from that Diet.

Step Away from that Diet is a small book put together to share with you what I have learned through the journey of losing weight.
In the book, I share ten steps to losing weight and gaining the confidence you’ve been searching for. The book is short, sweet, and straight to the point.
Ask yourself these questions:
Here is a glance at two of the ten topics we cover in Step Away from that Diet:
Step Away from that Diet is currently available for FREE!
Why?
Because I want to offer you valuable information that I know you will benefit from. I want to provide you with the answers that worked for me in starting on a new life journey.
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If you’ve already read Step Away from that Diet, I hope you have walked away with a fresh perspective on losing weight and gaining confidence.
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When I hear some non believers talk about their struggles with God, one of the reasons for their struggle is suffering. One of the big questions is often,
“Why would God make people to suffer?”
If only they could see past that question. If only they could see the love and comfort God gives us during times of suffering. We don’t suffer because God makes us suffer. Does he allow it? Yes. I don’t have an answer to the why of many sufferings, but there are things I do know:
From Sundi Jo: This is a guest post by Kristen Feola. She is is the author of the book, The Ultimate Guide to the Daniel Fast, an encouraging resource for individuals and groups who are participating in the Daniel Fast. She has worked as a personal trainer, nutritional consultant, First Place 4 Health leader, and fitness instructor. Kristen and her family attend James River Assembly in Ozark, Missouri. Vist her blog or follow her on Twitter.
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The Daniel Fast is a 21-day partial fast based upon the prophet Daniel’s exeriences as recorded in the Bible (Daniel 9 and 10). The purpose is to restrict commonly enjoyed foods as an act of worship and consecration to God. Someone who chooses to undergo a Daniel Fast demonstrates a physical commitment that reflects a deep spiritual desire for a more intimate relationship with the Lord.
I get tired of pretending. Tired of the make believe – convincing other people that we’re someone else, only for our true colors to shine through. That used to be me.

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Sometimes it still can be.
As I write this post, my heart is breaking for a friend who hasn’t stopped pretending. She is walking down a path full of lies and doesn’t seem to care if anyone notices. Perhaps she’s not pretending anymore. It’s possible the person I thought I knew was the false identity.
This past December I knew it was time to make some changes. I could feel myself slipping back into some old ways that I wasn’t happy with. Specifically my eating habits and the lack of exercise. Refusing to allow myself to get on the scale, I couldn’t deny that something was changing. My clothes were getting a little tight.